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    <title>Object Mentor Blog: Saying "NO".</title>
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      <title>Saying &amp;quot;NO&amp;quot;.</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;I saw &lt;a href="http://theoatmeal.com/comics/design_hell"&gt;this cartoon&lt;/a&gt; in a tweet today. It&amp;#8217;s the story of how a boss corrupts the work of a professional.  It&amp;#8217;s a funny cartoon, and a sad story that happens all too often in our profession.  But who, exactly, was at fault?...&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;The difference between a laborer and a professional is that a laborer takes orders from his boss, and a professional provides input to his superiors.  Laborers are hired to take direction.  Professionals are hired to ensure that the direction chosen makes sense.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Imagine this conversation between a patient and a doctor:&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Patient: &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;My arm hurts.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Doctor:  &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;What would you like me to do about it?&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Patient: &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;Make my arm stop hurting.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Doctor:  &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;Do you want me to cut it off?, I can do that.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Patient: &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;No, I just want it to stop hurting.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Doctor:  &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;I could cut all the nerves to your arm.  That&amp;#8217;ll stop it.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Patient: &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;Isn&amp;#8217;t there something less drastic you could do?&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Doctor:  &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;Ooops, sorry, time for my break.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Clearly we don&amp;#8217;t expect doctors to behave this way.  Even though the patient is the boss, the patient expects the doctor to have the answers and help set the direction.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Here&amp;#8217;s another version of the conversation:&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Patient:  &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;I want you to cut my arm off.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Doctor:   &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;What&amp;#8217;s wrong with your arm?&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Patient:  &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;It hurts.  I&amp;#8217;m tired of it.  Just cut it off.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Doctor:   &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;Let me see your arm.  Hmmm.  Looks like you&amp;#8217;ve got a sprain or perhaps a hairline fracture.  We should take some X-Rays.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Patient:  &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;No, just cut it off.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Doctor:   &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;Sir, I do not cut off healthy arms.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Patient:  &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;But I&amp;#8217;m paying you.  You have to do what I say!&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;
Doctor:   &lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;No, sir, I don&amp;#8217;t.  Cutting off your arm would violate my oath.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Which of these two doctors would you rather be?  Now project these two doctors into your own profession, and which would you rather be?&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Programmers are professionals.  They know more about designing and implementing software systems than their bosses do.  Indeed, they are hired for this knowledge and expertise.  And they have a solemn duty to prevent their managers from doing things that would be harmful.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;All this boils down to one simple thing.  Professionals are willing to say &amp;#8220;No&amp;#8221;.   When their managers come to them with direction that makes no sense, a professional programmer will refuse the direction.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Is this risky?  Sure.  But part of being a professional is the willingness to stand on principle.  There are lines that a professional will not cross.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Of course saying &amp;#8220;No.&amp;#8221; is only one side of the coin.  Professionals are also expected to explain their positions, and come up with viable alternatives.  Professionals &lt;em&gt;negotiate&lt;/em&gt; with their superiors until both parties are satisfied with the chosen direction.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;The poor web-designer schmuck in that cartoon was not behaving as a professional.  He was behaving as a laborer.  The fiasco at the end was &lt;em&gt;his&lt;/em&gt; fault.  He should have said &amp;#8220;No.&amp;#8221; and started a &lt;em&gt;negotiation&lt;/em&gt; with his customer instead of just doing everything the customer said.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;The cartoonist painted the web-designer as a wise but impotent victim, and the boss as the overbearing dufus.  The reality is that the web-designer took the role of the victim voluntarily and shirked his responsibility to refuse direction that he considered harmful.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;If you are a professional, you &lt;em&gt;never&lt;/em&gt; allow yourself to be put in the role of the victim.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <author>Uncle Bob</author>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by boots sale</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;It is better be smarty than politically correct.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 21:45:47 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by Salt</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;I think this shows the distinction between the relationship between a laborer and a boss, vs. a software professional and a client. The professional/consultant, as an expert, helps guide the customer &#8211; that&#8217;s why they get paid.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 03:10:33 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by Bell-bottom trousers</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Sorching summer, is coming. The most comfortable, put a cool and refreshing way, wear a &lt;a href="http://www.ququgofashion.com" rel="nofollow"&gt; dress &lt;/a&gt; out of fashion, wear a &lt;a href="www.lydress.com" rel="nofollow"&gt;comfortable &lt;/a&gt;, should be the one summer MMS chasing dreams. Bright colours by all the summer dress up, also can let your mood will no longer dry frowsty upset!&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by program</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;?t&amp;#8217;s so pretty,Thanks admin&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2010 09:28:03 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by Kerala Tourism Packages</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Great discussion&amp;#8230;funny&amp;#8230;..!!!&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 19:43:33 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by pewter</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;This is life worth living for.
It is better be smarty than politically correct.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 04 Jul 2010 06:03:40 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by SEO Professionals</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;I think , its on trial and error basis for you. Even then I should say that you are going good and on the right path. Its really an interesting project. I would like to refactor tooling for Leksah, but it will require much hard work and will have to put my skills to the highest possible way in it. Otherwise I will have to search for simple additions or integrations for re factoring. Anyway the information shared by you is very interesting. Many others will innovate some ideas or the other from your article. Keep up the good work.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 13:51:01 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by ladies hat</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Sometimes it is difficult to say no&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 03:45:48 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by Ecommerce website development</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;funny&amp;#8230; but why &amp;#8220;NO&amp;#8221;?
you can say &amp;#8220;YES&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 27 Jun 2010 12:06:23 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by conseils coco</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;All, i hope we can move past the &#8220;I&#8217;m not a victim&#8221;and &#8220;fight the power&#8221;. The programmer has a work ethic but so does the boss. You need both to make optimum decisions.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 10:20:57 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by jewellery</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;It&#8217;s realy a funny cartoon, but I don&#8217;t found a sad story.. Sorry&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 04:39:03 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by superman</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;But I agree with your definition a professional. A professional in your definition is someone who educates and explains why a choice may or may not be in the client&#8217;s best interest.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 11:53:29 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by Martin</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;It&#8217;s realy a funny cartoon, but I don&amp;#8217;t found a sad story.. Sorry&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 11:50:17 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by david gahan</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Youve got a great deal to say about this subject, 
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Two big thumbs up, man!&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 29 May 2010 08:53:31 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by Dubai Car Rentals</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;This is an inspirational and fantastic writing for other writers and artists to follow; thanks for sharing.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 07:15:44 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by HID kit</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Made the schools for No&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 23 May 2010 02:50:53 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by christian audigier bags</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;s&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 04:04:05 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by buy ipad cases</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;I also want to experience a responsible doctor.
When physical problems, if a doctor well enough, it may destroy the patient&amp;#8217;s life.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by kerala used car</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;This really made me remember my studies in navy school. They use to order and we obeys it. No voice for the word NO&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 03:21:55 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by Kerala Tour Packages</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;This is a great and very valuable information about The difference between a laborer and a professional is that a laborer takes orders from his boss, and a professional provides input to his superiors. Thank you very much for sharing this information with us.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Thanks.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by Blu-ray ripper mac</title>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by FLV extractor</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;it is really  a  good  site&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 03:42:47 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by par&#231;a TL kont&#246;r</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;Very nice art, thank you for this site!&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 08:56:03 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by hanlyone</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;I would be a bit shocked as a client of this cartoonist to seem how he has ridiculed his customers by incorporating them into his cartoon.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2010 01:18:14 -0500</pubDate>
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      <title>"Saying "NO"." by Dean</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;its sound like children story &amp;#8220;saying no!&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 06:14:22 -0500</pubDate>
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